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There are lots of different types of relationships. This list will help with some of the most common issues:
Bullying
Bullying is when someone calls you names, teases you or tries to hurt you on purpose. It can also include stealing your money or belongings, or making up things to get you into trouble. Bullies may be aggressive or threatening or may ignore you completely - this is also bullying. Cyber bullying is the term used more recently to refer to bullying and harassment by use of electronic devices, for example sending abusive text messages or phone calls, picture or video clip including ‘happy slapping’, chat room bullying or by instant messaging. If you are being bullied, you don't have to put up with it. You are not alone and there is help at hand - you must tell someone: your friends, your parents, or an adult that you trust. Useful Websites RacismA racist is someone who picks on other people or treats them differently because they view them as different or unequal. Racism is not just about colour. It can be prejudice against ethnic background, culture or language. Irish travellers, asylum seekers and gypsies all experience discrimination and racism. Report any racist attacks or comments to teachers or an adult in charge, or if the racism is more serious, report it to the police. Useful WebsitesFamilyIf your parents or carers are splitting up it can be a distressing and upsetting time for everybody. The most important thing to remember is that it is not your fault. They will both still love you. It might take a bit of time, but things will get better. Useful WebsitesFostering and AdoptionBeing adopted is a legal process, which means that you will become part of a new family and that you will no longer belong to your birth family. If you are adopted and decide to trace your birth parents, you must be aware that this may be a frustrating and emotional time for you and your family. You must be over 18 to make enquiries to find out who your birth parents are. Being fostered means you will be looked after by your foster carer in their home but you will still be able to have regular contact with your family. Your birth parents will still be responsible for you. Useful WebsitesBereavementEveryone deals with the death of someone close them in different ways. If you have recently lost someone you were close to, you will experience all sorts of feelings. It helps to talk to someone and you must give yourself and others time and space to come to terms with the loss. Cruse Bereavement Care's Youth Involvement Project supports young people (aged 12-18) after the death of someone close to them. Useful WebsitesSexuality: straight, bisexual, lesbian or gay?During your teenage years, your sexual feelings will start to develop and these feelings may continue to change over time. There are times when you might feel confused or worried about who you are sexually. If you're worried about your sexuality, the most important thing to remember is not to panic. You are still the same person whatever your feelings. Try to be yourself and whatever your sexuality, it doesn't stop you doing well in your school, work or personal life. Useful Websites Teenage ParentsIf you're a teenage parent, you don't have to try to cope on your own. Your doctor and health visitor are there to support you and there are other groups you can also turn to for help, advice and support. Speak to your choices adviser about the range of education, training and career opportunities that are still open to you. The Families Information ServiceThe Families Information Service (FIS) provides FREE information and advice on childcare, activities and services for children, young people and families throughout Northamptonshire. Care to LearnCare to Learn is a childcare scheme for young parents. If you're aged between 16-19 and in learning or training, you could be able to get funding to support childcare. HomestartHomestart is a voluntary organisation committed to promoting the welfare of families with at least one child under five years of age. Volunteers offer regular support, friendship and practical help to young families under stress in their own homes, helping to prevent family crisis and breakdown.
Surestart Children's CentresThe overall purpose of a Children's Centre is to offer a place where children aged 0-5 years old and their families can have access to services and information. Centres will provide inclusive accessible and child-friendly services that respond to local need and help children and their families reach their full potential. To find out where your nearest Children's Centre is or to find out more, please contact the Families Information Service on 01604 237935, or email them at: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it Young CarersA young carer is someone under the age of 18 who is the main carer for a sick or disabled parent or sibling. As a young carer, it's not unusual to sometimes feel overwhelmed, isolated or lonely. If you care or help care for someone, you are definitely not alone. Contact Northamptonshire Young Carers or have a look at the websites listed for more information on young carers and the support you could be receiving. Northamptonshire Carers - Young Carers' Service
Internet SafetyThe internet is a great way to find out information, learn new things, to chat with your friends and people around the world. You shouldn't be afraid to use the internet, but you need to know that there are dangers and that not everything you read is true. Talking to strangers on the internet should be treated the same as you would a stranger on the street. Useful Website |
| Last Updated on Wednesday, 28 September 2011 10:38 |
